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Monday 5 September 2011

Marriage Matching

The number of compatibility factors are generally called as 10, called Dasama Poruthams.
In addition to ensuring the compatibility factors in any two horoscopes of a Girl and a Boy, there are other factors in either or both the horoscopes that really influence any conclusion like Kalasthra Doshams, Sevvai Dosham (this is also part of the Kalasthra Dosham), Dasa Santhi and the general formation of the horoscopes and their respective prospects.
The following are the 10 compatibility factors between the Horoscopes of a Girl and the Boy, which is called Dasama Poruthams.
1.    Nakshatra Porutham (Dhina Porutham)
2.    Raasi Porutham
3.    Gana Porutham
4.    Yoni Porutham
5.    Rajju Porutham
6.    Raasi Athipathi Porutham
7.    Mahendira Porutham
8.    Sthree Deerkka Porutham
9.    Vasiya Porutham
10.  Vedai Porutham
and the 11th Porutham is Naadi Porutham.

Of all the above 11 Poruthams, the first 5 Poruthams are considered important and the Poruthams from 6 to 11 are not considered to be significant in deciding a horoscopes matching.

If the first 5 Poruthams are compatible, even if the other 6 Poruthams are not compatible, it can be well concluded that the horoscopes are matching.

While the Dasama Poruthams between the two horoscopes are explored, it is advisable that a general analysis is made in both the horoscopes.
First we have to rule out if there are any Doshams in both horoscopes.
If there is some Dosham in one horoscope, it should be ensured that similar - not exactly the same - Dosham prevails in the other horoscope.
If the Maangalya Sthanam in the Girl's horoscope is impaired, it should be ensured that the Ayul Baavam in the Boy's horoscope is enough strong.
If there is Sevvai Dosham in one horoscope, it should be ensured that the other horoscope is also having Sevvai Dosham.
Whether or not a Sevvai Dosham is capable of affecting the life of the couple, the psychological fear itself, if learnt later, will have its impact and make life miserable, since almost everybody is scared of Sevvai Dosham, whether or not we are aware its implications.

The process of horoscopes matching can be applied to organized marriages.  It will be meaningless to apply the principles of horoscopes matching after a Girl and a Boy are involved in a love affair.

Emotional bondage (Mana Porutham - in Tamil language) is the basis of a marriage.  This emotional bondage is established after the marriage in an organized marriage.In a love affair, this emotional bondage is first established and marriage takes place later.   When a love affair is involved,  advice is - DO NOT LOOK INTO THE HOROSCOPE IN LOVE MARRIAGES.  IT WILL ONLY END UP IN CONFUSION AND LOSS OF PEACE OF MIND.

1.Nakshatra Porutham (Dhina Porutham) - REPRESENTS LONGEVITY AND HEALTH
      The presence of Dhina Porutham ensures that the husband and wife remain healthy and free from all sorts  of diseases and will enjoy all comforts and a long lease of life. Dina portham is essential for prosperous life with out poverty and diseases.

2.Gana Porutham - COMPATIBILITY OF TEMPERAMENT
     This match will determine mangala or auspiciousness.

3. Raasi Porutham - UNITY AND LONGEVITY OF THE COUPLE
     Raasi Porutham is one of the important factors in horoscopes matching. 
    This generally indicates what naturally is the temperament of the horoscope person and tries to evolve a cohesive theory that the two horoscopes are capable of going together in life to make a cohesive family.
       Rasi porutham represents the following.
         1. Unity of the Couple.
         2. Possibility of getting a Male child First.
         3. Displeasure and Disputes between the Husband and Wife.
         4. Unexpected and unnecessary expenditures.
         5. problems from children
   The purpose of rasi porutham is offspring and other important thins in life.
   
4. Yoni Porutham - COMPATIBILITY OF SEX
    Yoni represents sex organs. If this Porutham is available intimacy of the couple will be satisfactory.
    Therefore this is considered as important and mandatory. Marriage will not be recommended if Yoni porutham is absent.Yoni match is considered for physical compatibility or sexual compatibility.

5. Rajju Porutham - DURABILITY OF MARRIED LIFE  - Maangalya Bakyam of the Girl
   Rajju represents the rope(Mangala Suthra) used to Tie-up the Thirumangalyam during the auspicious muhurtham time.
   Rajju is considered important marriage match. It denotes Mangalya bala. If there is no rachu marriage is not recommended.

6. Raasi Athipathi Porutham
   Raasi Athipathi Porutham ensures greater understanding and cohesiveness in a family life.
   Each house in the RASI chart is ruled by one of the Navagrahas (Planet).. Some planets have two places. The planet ruling the house of the Birth Star is 'RASI ADHIPATHI'.

7.  Mahendira Porutham -  WELLBEING, LONGEVITY AND VAMSAVRIDDHI
      This match is considered for offspring (children)
      This is not attached greater importance in marriage matching.
      The peculiar character of this matching is that, if this matches, almost all the important matching factors in horoscopes matching will be incompatible.
      Very exceptionally, one or two horoscopes will match in other aspects which are of greater importance, if this aspect of Mahendira Porutham matches.

8. Sthree Deerkka Porutham - LONGEVITY OF THE BRIDE
       This Porutham gives an idea about the Life Expectancy of the Girl.
     Also this helps for a comfortable married life. It is believed that the Girl will live for a long time as the wife and her life will end before her husband's life in the old age.
     That is she will attain the Lotus Feet of God as a Sumangali. However regarding the Life expectancy it is better to check her horoscope.
     This is believed to render a good wealth, prosperity and happiness to the couple.

9. Vasiya Porutham - ATTRACTION AND ADJUSTABILITY OF THE COUPLE  
    Vasiya Poruthams helps the couple to develop more liking and intimacy with each other .
    Vasiyam also helps to create confidence and adjustability between the husband and wife. It is plus point in Nakshathra Porutham. Vasiya Porutham is decided by comparing the Rasi of the Girl and Boy.
    Vasiya Porutham is one of the factors, which almost does not match in several horoscopes - of course, except a few.
    This does not have a major impact on the Dasama Poruthams between the two horoscopes

 10. Vedai Porutham  - DEVOID OF AFFECTION
       Vedha means affliction. This koota agreement wards of all evils and pitfalls in married life. A happy and prosperous married life is assured as a result.

11. Nadi : Nadi means pulse which is a medical term. So nadi Porutham ensures health, longevity of the couple and happiness of children.

Manglik (Mars- Sevvai ) Matching : This is also one of the most important aspect of horoscope matching. There must be compatibility of Mars between the male and the female horoscope.
The perfect calculation of all these points requires, accurate and detailed horoscope of both the boy and the girl.

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